Literally Why: Stockholm Syndrome – Disney Edition

21/04/2025 BioPhysics
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Let’s talk about Stockholm syndrome. You know, that weird psychological phenomenon where you start vibing with your kidnapper? It’s like being trapped in a toxic situationship, except instead of ghosting you, they’re holding you hostage. And what better place to explore this than Disney’s Beauty and the Beast, a love story so problematic that it could give your therapist a nervous breakdown.

But hey, we’re not here to ruin your childhood just to add a sprinkle of realism to the fairy dust. So buckle up, because we’re about to dissect this “tale as old as time” and see why Belle’s relationship with the Beast might just be the poster child for Stockholm syndrome.

Act 1: Kidnap Me, Maybe?

Imagine this: you’re Belle, a girl who’s been dreaming of adventure in the “great wide somewhere” (which, to be fair, is anywhere but this dusty French village where the local hobby is misogyny). One day, you find your dad locked up in a creepy castle by a raging buffalo in a waistcoat. What do you do? Swap places with him, of course, because you’re the main character and also, plot reasons.

But let’s pause here — Belle goes from reading books about far-off lands to being imprisoned by a literal beast. Sure, the castle has a talking teapot and enchanted furniture, but let’s not sugarcoat it: this isn’t a cozy Airbnb; it’s a hostage situation.

Act 2: Beauty and the Gaslight

At first, Beast is... well, a beast. He yells, he isolates her, and he doesn’t even let her eat dinner with him (hello, red flag city!). Yet slowly, Belle starts to see a “softer” side. He gives her a library (bribery), saves her from wolves (hero complex), and eventually stops acting like a total jerk. Cue the romantic montage of snowball fights and ballroom dancing, and suddenly, Belle is questioning everything.

Let’s be real: this is classic Stockholm syndrome. Over time, Belle starts sympathizing with her captor, excusing his past behavior because “he’s not so bad once you get to know him.” Sweetheart, that’s the trauma talking.

Act 3: The Enchantment of Manipulation

Now, you might be thinking, But Beast changed for her! And sure, personal growth is great. But why did he need a prisoner to unlock it? And why does Belle have to be the one to fix him? It’s the ultimate fixer-upper relationship, and if Belle had a group chat, her friends would be staging an intervention.

Even worse, the enchantment on Beast’s castle forces everyone around him to root for this relationship. Mrs. Potts is practically Belle’s cheerleader, Lumière is lighting up their romantic dinners, and Chip is there being cute for emotional support. It’s like one giant toxic group project, and Belle is stuck doing all the work.

Relatable Take: Why We Love It Anyway

Here’s the thing: despite all this, we love Beauty and the Beast. It’s visually stunning, the songs are iconic, and Belle is a bookworm who isn’t afraid to stand up for herself. But it’s also a cautionary tale wrapped in glitter.

The story taps into a deep human desire: to believe people can change, even when they’ve treated us badly. We all want to be Belle, thinking our love and patience can turn someone’s inner beast into Prince Charming. But in real life, that’s not how it works. You don’t “fix” someone by sacrificing your boundaries or ignoring red flags.

The Lesson: Fairy Tales vs. Reality

So, what can we learn from Belle’s castle-sized case of Stockholm syndrome? First, love shouldn’t feel like a hostage negotiation. Second, personal growth is great — but it’s not your job to drag someone to the finish line. And third, maybe next time, Belle should let the wolves have him.

At the end of the day, Beauty and the Beast is a fascinating, flawed story that makes us laugh, cry, and question our choices. It’s not perfect, but hey, neither are we. So, the next time someone says they want a love like Belle and Beast’s, just smile and say, “Literally why?”

Author Avatar Written by: Aasiya Buhari

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